Wedding Invitation Wording in Tamil & English: Samples for Every Tradition
By DG Team
The wording on a wedding invitation carries a lot of weight — it announces the families, honours the elders and tells guests exactly where and when to arrive. In Tamil Nadu, most families print their invitation in Tamil, English, or both. Below you will find ready-to-use wording samples in Tamil and English for Hindu, Christian and Muslim weddings, a checklist of details to include, and a timeline for ordering your cards.
Replace everything in [square brackets] with your own details.
What to include on a wedding invitation
- An opening blessing or invocation (family deity, "By the grace of God", or Bismillah)
- Full names of the bride and groom, with qualifications if your family prefers
- Names of both sets of parents — and grandparents, if you wish to honour them
- Date in both the Tamil calendar and the English calendar
- Muhurtham time (for example, 9.00 am to 10.30 am)
- Full venue name and address, with a landmark
- Reception date, time and venue, if different
- An RSVP name and phone number
- Optional: a QR code linking to Google Maps directions
Tamil wedding invitation wording (Hindu)
This is a traditional format used by many Tamil Hindu families:
திருமண அழைப்பிதழ்
நிகழும் மங்களகரமான [ஆண்டின் பெயர்] ஆண்டு [தமிழ் மாதம்] மாதம் [தேதி]-ஆம் நாள் ([கிழமை]), [ஆங்கிலத் தேதி] அன்று காலை [நேரம்] மணி முதல் [நேரம்] மணிக்குள் நடைபெறும் சுபமுகூர்த்தத்தில்,
திரு. [மணமகனின் தந்தை பெயர்] – திருமதி. [மணமகனின் தாய் பெயர்] அவர்களின் திருமகன்
திருநிறைச்செல்வன் [மணமகன் பெயர்]என்பவருக்கும்,
திரு. [மணமகளின் தந்தை பெயர்] – திருமதி. [மணமகளின் தாய் பெயர்] அவர்களின் திருமகள்
திருநிறைச்செல்வி [மணமகள் பெயர்]என்பவருக்கும், [மண்டபத்தின் பெயர், ஊர்]-இல் திருமணம் நடைபெற இருப்பதால், தாங்கள் தங்கள் சுற்றமும் நட்பும் சூழ வருகை தந்து மணமக்களை வாழ்த்த அன்புடன் அழைக்கின்றோம்.
இவண்,
[குடும்பத்தினர் பெயர்கள்]
If you are also hosting a reception, add a separate line such as: வரவேற்பு: [தேதி], மாலை [நேரம்] மணி, [இடம்].
English wedding invitation wording (Hindu)
With the blessings of [family deity / elders]
Mr. [Groom's father] & Mrs. [Groom's mother]
request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their son[Groom's name]
with
[Bride's name]daughter of Mr. [Bride's father] & Mrs. [Bride's mother]
on [Day], [Date]
Muhurtham: [time] to [time]
at [Venue name, address]Reception on [Date] at [time] at [Venue]
With best compliments from: [Relatives' names]
Christian wedding invitation wording
In Tamil
கர்த்தருடைய கிருபையால்,
திரு. [தந்தை பெயர்] – திருமதி. [தாய் பெயர்] அவர்களின் குமாரன்
[மணமகன் பெயர்]என்பவருக்கும்,
திரு. [தந்தை பெயர்] – திருமதி. [தாய் பெயர்] அவர்களின் குமாரத்தி
[மணமகள் பெயர்]என்பவருக்கும், [தேதி] அன்று காலை [நேரம்] மணிக்கு [தேவாலயத்தின் பெயர், ஊர்]-இல் திருமணம் நடைபெற இருப்பதால், தாங்கள் குடும்பத்துடன் வருகை தந்து மணமக்களை ஆசீர்வதிக்க அன்புடன் அழைக்கின்றோம்.
In English
"Two are better than one." — Ecclesiastes 4:9
By the grace of God, we joyfully invite you to the Holy Matrimony of
[Groom's name]
son of Mr. [Father] & Mrs. [Mother]and
[Bride's name]
daughter of Mr. [Father] & Mrs. [Mother]on [Day], [Date] at [time]
at [Church name, address]followed by the reception at [Venue]
Muslim wedding (Nikah) invitation wording
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
Janab [Groom's father] & family
cordially invite you to the Nikah of their son[Groom's name]
with
[Bride's name]
daughter of Janab [Bride's father]on [Day], [Date], after [Zuhr / Asr] prayer
at [Masjid or venue, address]Walima: [Date], [time], at [Venue]
Your presence and duas are our pleasure.
In Tamil, the Nikah invitation often begins with பிஸ்மில்லாஹிர் ரஹ்மானிர் ரஹீம் and follows the same structure as the samples above.
Short and modern wording
For a small ceremony, a second card for friends, or a digital invitation to share on WhatsApp:
Together with our families,
[Bride's name] & [Groom's name]
are getting married![Date] · [Time]
[Venue, town]We would love to celebrate with you.
RSVP: [Name] — [phone number]
Tips for bilingual Tamil–English cards
- Put one language on each side, or Tamil on the inside and English on the outside. Mixing both languages in one paragraph is hard to read.
- Choose a clear Tamil font. Very decorative Tamil fonts can make names hard to read, especially for elderly guests. Keep the decorative font for the names only.
- Check the spelling of every name in both scripts with the family elders. Names are the most common mistake we are asked to fix after printing.
- Double-check the muhurtham time against what your priest or astrologer wrote down.
- Add a QR code for the venue location — it saves outstation guests many phone calls.
When to order your wedding cards
| Before the wedding | What to do |
|---|---|
| 10–12 weeks | Finalise the guest list and count how many cards you need (add 10% spare) |
| 8–10 weeks | Choose your card design and finalise the wording |
| 7–8 weeks | Approve the digital proof and send the cards for printing |
| 5–6 weeks | Collect cards; many families place the first invitation at their family deity's temple |
| 4–5 weeks | Distribute to outstation relatives first, then local guests |
| 1 week | Send WhatsApp reminders with the location link |
During peak wedding months such as Thai, Panguni, Vaikasi and Aavani, print schedules fill up quickly — order early to avoid a last-minute rush.
Frequently asked questions
Should a wedding invitation be in Tamil or English?
Many Tamil families print both: Tamil for elders and relatives, and English for colleagues and friends from other states. A bilingual card, with one language on each side, covers everyone with a single print run.
Whose name comes first on the invitation?
Traditionally, the family hosting the wedding lists their child first. On cards printed by the groom's family, the groom's name usually comes first; on cards printed by the bride's family, the bride's name comes first. Many families print two versions.
How many wedding cards should I order?
Count one card per family or household, not per person, then add about 10% for last-minute additions and keepsakes.
Can you design the card in Tamil for us?
Yes. We design and print wedding invitations in Tamil, English and both, and we send you a digital proof to check every name, date and time before printing.
Explore our wedding invitation collection, or visit our Neyveli or Cuddalore store to see and feel printed samples before you choose.